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Why do you
use counselling, coaching, and spiritual mentoring?
Every counsellor, psychotherapist, and coach has their own
‘personal style.’ They use a method where they’ve seen results.
Hopefully their method is not a belief system they’ve acquired,
but rather something that produces results. Because we are all
chemically different, we all require different approaches. There
is no one cure for all people, no matter what some individuals
protest. It’s like trying on an outfit. First, give it
appropriate time; then, if it doesn’t work anymore change it. In
the end, most methodologies do work. When you grow and expand in
consciousness during your healing journey, you’ll realize that
you need to change methods or approach things differently at
some point. For example, I’m thinking that the socks you wore
five years ago probably don’t fit well today. Being able to
offer my clients more than one method, and knowing through
experiences that this combination works, I couldn’t give
anything less.
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I hear
that in counselling you work through the past? I’ve also heard
that this isn’t productive by many people?
Well, many people have beliefs or go by hear-say. Also, many
people don’t have the courage to go back to the past because,
more often than not, there is a lot of pain that may surface;
so, they make many excuses not to do the work. In addition, some
people have an attitude of “It’s in the past. It happened long
ago. Quit playing the victim. And, just let it go.” However, I’m
here to say that letting go is a process. It doesn’t just
happen. I show you how to do it.
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Why is it
important to counsel as you coach a client?
I started my career as a life coach. Educated in three different
accredited coaching schools. However, I could feel there was
something missing within a coaching conversation. What I’ve
realized is that life happens to people: death, losing a job,
menopause, divorce, miscarriage, abuse, illness, accidents,
alcohol & drugs, and recurring memories. Many times it is
necessary to go to the past to see where the patterns begin –
what triggered them. It is difficult to overcome obstacles when
you’re pushing forward without acknowledging the present or the
past, or only working with external thought patterns and
behaviours. Further, it is very difficult to continue with your
goals and vision when you’ve got some baggage to clean up. We
all react from the past. Why? Because unresolved emotions are
stuck inside of us: the past of yesterday, two years ago, and
twelve years ago. Going to the source and exploring your
acquired perceptions at that time will eliminate the emotions,
thoughts, and actions tagged to the issue.
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What is
your approach?
Person-centered counselling and coaching is a technique that
creates a comfortable, non-judgmental environment by
demonstrating congruence, empathy, and unconditional positive
regard. A non-evasive approach to help the client find their own
solutions to their complaints. During the conversation we
draw-forth solutions; we uncover what’s hidden. By opening the
doors of perception, we see new things. Also, I have an eclectic
approach to all sessions drawing upon various aspects to create
a custom-made approach. As I mentioned in question one, there is
NO one type method for all.
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When does
spiritual mentoring begin?
Spiritual mentoring may be integrated within sessions at any
point. It is not a separate entity. Some sessions are void of
it; others play a significant role with it. You set the agenda.
I respond with your needs. When the timing is right, that’s when
it arises.
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Are you
going to heal me?
As a matter of fact, no. You are going to heal you. The more
work you put into the conversations, the more you will get
results. I am here to create objective awareness through
exploration, prompting, understanding, acknowledging,
empathizing, observing, questioning, and supporting. I am not a
sergeant. And, I do not believe in forced change. I am genuine,
gentle, and straight forward in the process.
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What are
telephone consultations?
When something comes up between calls and you’re experiencing a
difficulty in resolving the situation or feelings, call me.
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Can I book
one appointment?
Yes you can. Although, I would recommend regular weekly or
bi-weekly sessions to gain results, I don’t turn away anyone
that needs immediate support or just needs to talk
confidentially.
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Do I need
to fill in an intake form if I only see you one time?
In a regular life situation, no, I wouldn’t ask you to. However,
there are times when I need to ask an individual, especially if
that individual has suicidal ideation, is in an abusive
relationship, or knows of anyone harming a child or an elder.
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Why don’t
you offer video on skype calls?
Because of some of the individuals I counsel, they need extreme
confidentiality. For safety reasons, I offer it without
question.
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Do I have
to sign a contract with you?
No contracts are signed. Situations change quickly and I
understand that. I also know what it’s like to try to get out of
one. You stay as long as necessary. You are in complete control.
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What if I
call in late or forget about my appointment?
Because you are in complete control, you also take full
responsibility. The call still ends at the scheduled time.
Missing and forgetting are no exceptions. Exceptions include
medical emergencies.
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Can I
rebook a scheduled appointment?
Yes, you can. Upon 48 hours’ notice, and, some exceptions 24
hours’ notice, you can rebook. This will not affect a loss in
payment.
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Do I have
to tell you things I don’t want to?
No, not at all. We establish a shared conversation around your
topic, and we go at your pace. I help you explore the
situations, discover new ways, see through new windows, make a
plan (when ready), and cheer you on for courage. I stand beside
you all the way. I give you my hand.
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Do I
‘always’ need a topic to discuss when I come to the session?
No. Some topics organically arise in the session, and many
times, they are the best and most profound ones.
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If I make
my payment online, what happens?
You call me and leave a voice message that you’ve made a payment
online and want an appointment. I confirm payment. Then I will
call you back to book a time. This has been established mainly
for current client convenience.
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When are
you available?
My availability varies, depending on clients requests. My
sessions are generally throughout the day. Nevertheless,
depending on circumstances and my schedule, I may make time
available in the latter part of the day and evening.
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Will you
talk about me to anyone?
Our relationship is strictly confidential. I will talk to no one
about you. However, there are some exceptions that I am bound to
by law. It is important for you to read
Limits of
Confidentiality & Your Rights
as a client. Everything you need
to know is in this link. I will address this on our first
conversation.
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